Rules for men

In Russia rules of etiquette on appointment share on rules for guys and rules for girls. Has historically developed so, that usually appointment is appointed by the young man. However presently and the girl can suggest to meet the first.

Rules for men

As is known, meet on clothes, therefore the main thing for the beginning - good appearance. The clothes should be pure and ironed, to correspond to a situation (if you meet not in stadium, it is not necessary to put on a vest and sports trousers), hair and nails - pure and well-groomed. The important part of etiquette of the first appointment - to fetch the woman before a meeting and to spend up to the house - after. Certainly, lady can appointment in appointed in advance a place, but in that case keep it waiting - an obvious attribute of a bad form and disrespect. When appointment has come to an end, the gentleman should be convinced, that the woman has reached the house, it is especially important during evening dark time: it can bring it home personally or be convinced that it has caught a taxi. One more important rule: to be friendly not only in relation to lady, but also with associates. To look “ the present the man ” in opinion of lady, it is completely not necessary to behave with other people impudently and roughly. Certainly, it is not necessary to forget about good manners - to open before the woman of a door and to pass it forward, to submit a hand, leaving transport to not sit down, if lady costs. A question - who pays the account in cafe or restaurant? - can be uneasy on any under the account appointment. But on the first appointment is one of the most complex moments. The way to avoid - an inconvenient situation is better for thinking over in advance: for example, right at the beginning of a feast to give the waiter a credit card that the question on the account in the end of a supper did not rise at all. If the woman insists that itself will pay for itself - it is necessary to respect with its principles.

Rules for women.  
The First appointment always should be spent in a neutral territory. Is better to meet in cafe, it is possible - in populous park. It is unreasonable to meet for the first time the stranger at itself or at his place, and also in deserted places. It is a bad form, besides - we shall recollect the criminal chronicle - not safely. Be not late! Many ladies consider, that delay will give to them to the importance, but it at all so. The person expecting late, feels angry and offended. How to put on the first appointment? It is better to come in neutral, it is possible - business clothes. It is necessary to mean, that sexy clothes (black stockings in сеточку, frank miniskirts, dresses from a décolleté, etc.) сan create at all that impression which you wished to make, and to give the gentleman wrong installation. Behave naturally and friendly, take a keen interest in the interlocutor. It is not necessary “ to fill to itself the price ”, to be cold, haughty and arrogant as it is not necessary to be too forward, it is constant кокетничать and very much to try to like.